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If you love honest conversations that explore the messy, beautiful, and complex truth of being human, come join the conversations on Living the Questions

Inspired by Rainer Maria Rilke’s words, “Live the questions now…,” this show invites you to explore life’s uncertainties through honest conversation. It’s not about having the answers — it’s about embracing the messy beauty of our shared humanity and creating space for connection.

Join us as we uncover the layers and live into the unknown — one big question at a time.

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Welcome to Living the Questions, a podcast where we embrace the messy middle of life — the space between questions and answers. Hosted by Courtney Koester, this show invites you to explore what it means to live in the unknown and navigate the questions that shape our lives. Each episode dives into the beauty of being present, showing up as you are, and allowing life to unfold without the fear of needing to have all the answers. From the intricacies of self-expression to the challenges of overcoming self-doubt, Living the Questions is a journey of self-discovery, curiosity, and connection. Tune in for deep, authentic conversations that encourage you to live into your questions and meet each moment with clarity and authenticity. Join us as we explore the questions that lead to growth, transformation, and the beautiful complexities of being human.


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Ep #1 | How Do We Respect Our Needs While Loving Others Deeply?

How do we honor both our needs and the needs of those we love? In this solo episode, I dive into the complexities of balancing care for ourselves while showing up fully in our relationships. Exploring the tension between people-pleasing, self-sacrifice, and genuine love, I unpack the journey of learning to hold space for both. How do we navigate the discomfort of growth, the murkiness of evolving boundaries, and the reality that the answers are always unfolding? Join me as I reflect on what it means to live into this question with integrity, compassion, and deep care.